There are few things more disappointing for both the guy and the lady than one or both of them having a low libido. But the solution doesn't have to be difficult or even expensive. Often it is just a simple as purchasing a good quality sex enhancer liquid or gel. Or others may want to look into sex "toys" that can add to their desire. But the question comes up - what do they do and are they worth it? Following are some points worth considering:
Liquids and gels - These can come in a variety of choices from just plain slippery, like good old KY gel(TM), which is fine if all you need is to eliminate vaginal dryness. But from there you can try flavored or stimulating lotions and gels that actually have ingredients that bring circulation to the area whether it is the vagina or clitoris. This warming sensation is often all it takes to give the woman the boost she needs to feel aroused and ready for sex. Many brands are designed to be eaten, too, which helps with oral sex if he or she is hesitant about it at first. Sometimes adding a flavor removes some of the aversion of oral sex.
Toys - many couples prefer not to use something other than their own hands and other body contact for sexual stimulation. But for those who have no problem trying a sex toy like a vibrator or bullet, it can mean the difference between a woman having an orgasm or not. The thing to remember is to use it as a part of your loving making and not an end in itself. Toys or gels or anything should be part of how the two of you make love together.
Many times cost is a consideration. Some of the best enhancers can be pricy. Well, the question you can ask yourself is what is it worth to you? Can a twelve dollar bottle of Astroglide(TM) give you just the edge you need to make your sex life zing? Or a $30 vibrator for her. Think about it this way, if your sex life goes "through the roof", isn't it worth giving up dinner out or those expensive bottles of wine - just one time. It's really a no-brainer.
Don't get stuck in your sex life. Be willing to try new things. It really could make the difference between a strained, unhappy relationship and one that takes you to the heights of eroticism.
Liquids and gels - These can come in a variety of choices from just plain slippery, like good old KY gel(TM), which is fine if all you need is to eliminate vaginal dryness. But from there you can try flavored or stimulating lotions and gels that actually have ingredients that bring circulation to the area whether it is the vagina or clitoris. This warming sensation is often all it takes to give the woman the boost she needs to feel aroused and ready for sex. Many brands are designed to be eaten, too, which helps with oral sex if he or she is hesitant about it at first. Sometimes adding a flavor removes some of the aversion of oral sex.
Toys - many couples prefer not to use something other than their own hands and other body contact for sexual stimulation. But for those who have no problem trying a sex toy like a vibrator or bullet, it can mean the difference between a woman having an orgasm or not. The thing to remember is to use it as a part of your loving making and not an end in itself. Toys or gels or anything should be part of how the two of you make love together.
Many times cost is a consideration. Some of the best enhancers can be pricy. Well, the question you can ask yourself is what is it worth to you? Can a twelve dollar bottle of Astroglide(TM) give you just the edge you need to make your sex life zing? Or a $30 vibrator for her. Think about it this way, if your sex life goes "through the roof", isn't it worth giving up dinner out or those expensive bottles of wine - just one time. It's really a no-brainer.
Don't get stuck in your sex life. Be willing to try new things. It really could make the difference between a strained, unhappy relationship and one that takes you to the heights of eroticism.
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