A few years ago my girlfriend's best friend bought her a sexy pair of pink panties with the words 'Giddy Up' emblazoned on the backside.
At the time her husband turned to her hopefully, wondering if she'd bought a pair for herself. The short answer was 'No'.
Years later as a married man myself, I can understand her response. As we settle down careers, cleaning and cooking can sometimes take precedence over sex. Heaven forfend! And when we do make time for a little bedroom action, it's easy to stick with the tried and tested.
With a little imagination and effort you can once again swing from the chandeliers. Especially if you try these 4 tips...
Share your fantasies
Strip-tease
Sex toys
Oral sex
Share Your Fantasies
Sharing fantasies creates intimacy and is, for the most part, best done within the confines of a loving relationship. Sharing your innermost thoughts and desires often relies on an element of trust which is usually present in a secure partnership.
Try it; you can be as daring or as basic as you like. It's your fantasy after all. Why not ask your man to don a black t-shirt and run around the bedroom like Duane Lee from Dog the Bounty Hunter. Disclaimer - the previous sentence is not an admission on my part.
On a personal note, a friend of mine is quite partial to a Dark Fairy costume his wife bought. Let's just say it doesn't only come out at Halloween, and they seem uncommonly willing to share this fact with others.
Sexy Strip-Tease
Men are visual creatures. Put on your black-lace bra, turn the music up and see where the mood takes you. Anticipation is definitely key. Trust me, there's nothing more exciting for a man than seeing his hot, confident woman tantalisingly tugging at her lingerie with promises of what's to come.
If you're not confident in your ability, take a beginner's class in strip-tease. It's enough fun in itself, and sure to get your confidence soaring. And bare in mind that once you begin, your man's mind will be so filled with scandalous thoughts you can be sure that he won't be critiquing your technique.
Discover Sex Toys
Sex Toys are a wonderful way of introducing something new to the bedroom. Forget the sordid trashy image of the sex shops of old.
Times have changed. There are now loads of alluring and exclusive toys designed specifically for sexy women. And with the wonder of on-line shopping you don't even have to leave the confines of your home. For example, this online sex toy store is designed exclusively for women.
There are also sex toys for couples. So spend quality time choosing a toy you can use together. You'll have a blast browsing the various categories. And end up with a sex toy that's sure to add extra spice to the bedroom.
Oral Sex
From a male perspective, the old saying "there's no such thing as bad blow-job" is absolutely 100% correct. And in the beginning of a relationship there's a desire to try and impress each other by showing off one's 'moves' in the bedroom.
As the years wear on, and time is often non-existent, most 'extras' (as one friend hilariously refers to oral sex) get forgotten.
When was the last time you surprised him with a little mouth-action? Use your hands and lube. Lots of it. French Kiss has an amazing Raspberry-flavoured one - yum! He'll be so pleased, he might even reciprocate (don't be afraid to ask).
Go on, be the gorgeous, glamorous, confident woman that you are. Do the Back-ward Cowgirl and...Giddy Up!
At the time her husband turned to her hopefully, wondering if she'd bought a pair for herself. The short answer was 'No'.
Years later as a married man myself, I can understand her response. As we settle down careers, cleaning and cooking can sometimes take precedence over sex. Heaven forfend! And when we do make time for a little bedroom action, it's easy to stick with the tried and tested.
With a little imagination and effort you can once again swing from the chandeliers. Especially if you try these 4 tips...
Share your fantasies
Strip-tease
Sex toys
Oral sex
Share Your Fantasies
Sharing fantasies creates intimacy and is, for the most part, best done within the confines of a loving relationship. Sharing your innermost thoughts and desires often relies on an element of trust which is usually present in a secure partnership.
Try it; you can be as daring or as basic as you like. It's your fantasy after all. Why not ask your man to don a black t-shirt and run around the bedroom like Duane Lee from Dog the Bounty Hunter. Disclaimer - the previous sentence is not an admission on my part.
On a personal note, a friend of mine is quite partial to a Dark Fairy costume his wife bought. Let's just say it doesn't only come out at Halloween, and they seem uncommonly willing to share this fact with others.
Sexy Strip-Tease
Men are visual creatures. Put on your black-lace bra, turn the music up and see where the mood takes you. Anticipation is definitely key. Trust me, there's nothing more exciting for a man than seeing his hot, confident woman tantalisingly tugging at her lingerie with promises of what's to come.
If you're not confident in your ability, take a beginner's class in strip-tease. It's enough fun in itself, and sure to get your confidence soaring. And bare in mind that once you begin, your man's mind will be so filled with scandalous thoughts you can be sure that he won't be critiquing your technique.
Discover Sex Toys
Sex Toys are a wonderful way of introducing something new to the bedroom. Forget the sordid trashy image of the sex shops of old.
Times have changed. There are now loads of alluring and exclusive toys designed specifically for sexy women. And with the wonder of on-line shopping you don't even have to leave the confines of your home. For example, this online sex toy store is designed exclusively for women.
There are also sex toys for couples. So spend quality time choosing a toy you can use together. You'll have a blast browsing the various categories. And end up with a sex toy that's sure to add extra spice to the bedroom.
Oral Sex
From a male perspective, the old saying "there's no such thing as bad blow-job" is absolutely 100% correct. And in the beginning of a relationship there's a desire to try and impress each other by showing off one's 'moves' in the bedroom.
As the years wear on, and time is often non-existent, most 'extras' (as one friend hilariously refers to oral sex) get forgotten.
When was the last time you surprised him with a little mouth-action? Use your hands and lube. Lots of it. French Kiss has an amazing Raspberry-flavoured one - yum! He'll be so pleased, he might even reciprocate (don't be afraid to ask).
Go on, be the gorgeous, glamorous, confident woman that you are. Do the Back-ward Cowgirl and...Giddy Up!
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